My name is Premraj.
It means ruled by love.
I received it during a time when my life was being profoundly reshaped by a deep inner process called Path of Love. It wasn’t something I chose lightly—it marked the end of one way of being and the beginning of another. By the end, I wasn’t the same person anymore, and I wanted my name to reflect that.
That work didn’t just change my story.
It changed my nervous system.
It changed how I meet people.
It changed how I listen.
For the last 12 years, I’ve had the privilege of studying and apprenticing with some of the most skilled somatic and trauma therapists in the world. I completed the three-year Somatic Experiencing training, followed by a two-year professional training in Hakomi—both body-based, nervous-system–oriented approaches to healing.
But what I offer isn’t a technique.
It’s an experience of safety.
Not the kind of safety we talk about intellectually—but the kind your body recognizes.
Because you can be safe on the outside and still feel braced, guarded, disconnected, or alone inside.
I know this not just professionally, but personally.
For a long time, I didn’t realize I was living with trauma. My once happy world slowly became smaller. Things that brought me joy began to flatten. Eventually, even music and movement disappeared from my life. My system was protecting me, but I didn’t understand that yet.
And then one day, in a somatic session, something shifted.
I suddenly noticed the mountains in the distance. I could feel the world again. I could feel myself walking, breathing, being. There was a lightness I hadn’t felt in years.
That was the moment I understood:
Trauma isn’t just what happened to us.
It’s what happens inside us when connection disappears.
And healing is not about fixing—
it’s about remembering.
My work is about helping your nervous system rediscover safety, curiosity, and choice.
It’s slow.
It’s relational.
It’s deeply respectful of your timing.
I don’t push.
I don’t override.
I don’t pathologize what your system learned to do to survive.
Together, we listen.
Often, younger parts of you will come forward—moments when something important happened and you had to face it alone. We don’t rush those moments. We meet them with presence, with gentleness, with enough safety for something new to become possible.
Because real change doesn’t happen through insight alone.
It happens when your body finally feels:
“I’m not alone with this anymore.”
People often tell me that in our work, they feel more spacious. More alive. More themselves. That they don’t need to fix, or have anything figured out. That they begin to sense options where only reactions used to be. That they can pause. Choose. Breathe.
That’s what I offer.
Not a quick fix.
Not a performance.
But a place where all of you is welcome.
And where, slowly, something inside you remembers how to come home.

